Anxiety and Fear in Children

Children are the most vulnerable when facing athese fears tend to disappear or to diminish. If
crisis. They are most vulnerable because they arethey don't however you may notice a
much more prone to feeling certain fears duringprogressive tendency to worry or fear over
the crucial years while they develop. There havethings. The symptoms are usually clear: they are
always been cases of fear and anxiety amongworried or afraid of getting a bad grade, that
children, but in recent years, the feeling oftheir mother will not pick them up from school or
vulnerability is ever more present.something terrible could happen to one of their
Generally anxieties and fears most affect childrenloved ones. They can become irritable and suffer
from about the age of 10 on throughfrom headaches or stomach aches. It is also
adolescence, although some fears are present atpossible that they stop playing as much and may
an earlier age. While fear is generally thought of asshow signs of disturbances in sleep or feeding
a negative trait, care must me taken tohabits.
understand where it comes from. Fears are aThe good news is that in most cases the
natural mechanism of protection. For kids, the signrecovery is complete. It is essential however to
of fears is also an indication of their development.make a good initial diagnosis and follow the
They are becoming conscious about their ownappropriate treatment with the whole family
individuality and resources. The golden rule forworking together. You should define the problem
adults living with kids who are afraid of somethingdepending on the worries or fears being exhibited
is to be careful and not to get impatient or angryby the child. The most common are separation
as you guide them to get through the situation.anxiety disorder, panic, generalized anxiety, social
What types of fears are considered normal duringphobia or specific phobias. The symptoms of
childhood?these types of fears can be expressed as
Between 6 and 18 months, babies normally begindepression, a deficit in attention, impulsiveness and
to have fears of the dark and unknown. While athyper activeness. After determining the type of
8 months old they begin to show fear ofdisorder and its possible triggers, treatment should
strangers. Between 2 and 7 years it is commonbe done with a therapist.
to express fears of certain animals, monsters orKeep in mind that the speed of recovery depends
ghosts, and lonely situations. Finally after the ageon many factors. For example, the degree of
of about 7, fears begin to be associated with thevulnerability the child has, parent engagement with
social context; school, sports performance andthe treatment and the characteristics of the socio
fear of death.economic area where they live.
To the extent that a child develops normally