Golf Mind Play: We Attract What We Fear

Is the fear of failure sabotaging your game?in front of a crowd. If you walk up to the first
A golfer who fears failure is incapable oftee fearing that you will make a fool of yourself
maintaining flow, which leads to inconsistent andwith a poor shot, you’ve already set yourself
poor shots. In other words, if you are thinkingup for failure before you’ve even made your
negatively about the outcome of the hole, youpractice swing. This is a good time to use your
have already sabotaged your shot. Why? Becausevisualisation skills; imagine the perfect swing and
we attract what we fear. If all of your mentalvisualise where that swing will put your ball.
energy is centred on imagining the worst possibleNarrow your focus to a specific target and ignore
scenario, you’ll leave yourself with no choiceeverything that may interfere with your image.
but to surrender to the fated outcome that hasEverybody has at one time or another
been programmed in your mind. Fear is anexperienced the first tee jitters, and although it
interesting thing. A lot of people have fear on themay feel like everyone’s attention is centred
golf course and many associate fear with aon you, the majority of the crowd will be thinking
certain hole, or with familiar, but challengingabout their own shots. Just remember, if you do
situations. Because fear is established by ahit a bad shot off the first tee, those who notice
negative reaction to past events, conventionalwill only empathise – it has happened to every
challenges on the golf course are often met withgolfer, and it’s certainly not the end of the
fear before players even attempt to overcomeworld. The key is to remove your focus from
them. You may tell yourself that you don’tyour audience and transfer it to your target. Keep
like a certain hole, and that you always struggle toin mind that you’re playing for yourself, not
get through it. By invoking negative suggestions,for the crowd.
you have instantly created a chain of events, aTips
chemical reaction in your brain that causes you to1. Reduce anxiety at the first tee by focusing
do things differently in your body before yousolely on your shot, and disregarding anyone who
have even placed your tee in the ground. So, inmay be watching. Remember, they’re thinking
order to break this chain reaction, it is paramountabout their upcoming shot, not yours.
to imagine that you really like every hole, and that2. Let go of the outcome, and concentrate on
every hole is a good hole. Try not to dwell on theyour present shot. Play the game one shot at a
poor shots you’ve made in the past andtime, rather than thinking too far ahead.
focus on the present moment, as if it is a new3. Fear hinders your ability to perform. Tell
and exciting challenge. By altering your attitudeyourself that you like every hole on the golf
when faced with obstacles, you’ll be in acourse; one is not better or worse than the
better position to conquer them.other. Replace your negative emotions with
Do you dread teeing off in front of a crowd?positive ones and you will become more relaxed
An all too familiar situation that generates anxietyand confident on the golf course.
in many players, not just beginners, is teeing off