Overcome Your First Tee Nerves

Many golfers suffer the effects of first teewhatever place on the course you are
nerves.  Here are a few top tips to help youpicturing...So picture the place where you want the
overcome your nerves and put your best swingball to end up.
on your golf ball.6. Learn to have selective memory. Turn a blind
It is important to understand that anxiety is aeye, put it to the back of your mind, and sweep
natural response. In situations of perceived threat,it under the carpet. These phrases reflect another
your brain instinctively releases adrenalin - theof the exquisite mental talents we all instinctively
fight or flight hormone - named as such becausepossess. Put the duff shots firmly to the back of
it poises the body to fight or flee. This of courseyour mind and instead remember the last time
was a very appropriate response to perceivedyou hit a really perfect shot off the first tee and
threat in cave man days. It is not, however, anrun it over and over in your mind so that it is
appropriate response when you are standingvery clear and sharp and stands out clearly in the
waiting to hit your golf shot off the first tee box.forefront of your mind.
Nevertheless, this is our body's natural instinctive7. Focus on the golf shot you are about to play
response to perceived threat. So when youwithout generalizing. "I ALWAYS hit it in the
experience the symptoms of anxiety they arewater" is not a good thought to choose to have.
simply your body's natural response to aWhatever you focus on you attract into your life;
perceived threat. Thus the cause of the anxiety iswhatever you imagine you create. Be aware that
YOUR PERCEPTION of threat, and the symptomsyou have, on occasion, hit it into the water, but
are the physiological effects of adrenalin beingthat THIS TIME, TODAY, you are planning to hit
released in your body.the golf ball down the middle of the fairway, and
You may consciously think yourself into beingvisualize that outcome before you swing.
anxious, so that it is a self fulfilling prophesy. More8. Choose your thoughts. Believe it or not, you
frequently however, the thought process hascan do this. Everything in life starts with a thought.
become habitual and automatic, so that it justHow you see things depends on how you choose
happens without you having to consciously thinkto look at them. You can choose to look at things
about it. This is how your mind works - you learnfrom a different angle.
how to drive and once you are competent at9. Be positive and commit to the golf shot you
driving you don't have to think about how to dohave decided upon. Positive thinking does work.
it, it just happens. It is the same with walking,Commitment does work. Take a committed
talking, tying your shoelaces and opening doors.practice swing and ask yourself would that swing
This ability of your mind to generalize patterns ofhave produced the outcome you want to
behavior is fantastic most of the time - so longachieve? Take your golf shot when you are
as the skill which has been generalized is one thatconfident of the swing you are going to make.
you want to have. But when your mind10. Let go; if you arrive on the tee feeling a bit
generalizes a pattern of behavior which istense, pretend you are a rag doll and shake your
counter-productive, what you have is a learned,muscles out. Remember mind works on body and
habitual, instinctive response that you really do notbody works on mind. You cannot have a relaxed
want. The great news, however, is that what hasbody at the same time as a tense mind.
been learned can be unlearned.11. Take a step back. Don't rush; think before you
You may have heard the saying that it is notact. Take a moment to review the situation.
what happens to you in life but the way in whichDistance yourself, look at it from a different
you respond which distinguishes champions. Anddirection, and take a different perspective.
no matter what situation you are in you can learnBreathe deeply and take time to decide on the
to respond to it in a different way. Your thoughtsbest golf shot in the prevailing conditions. The fact
create your emotions and your actions.that you "always take a three wood here" isn't a
Here are some tips which will help you to think ingood enough reason to grab that club out of your
a different way when you are on the first teebag.
box.12. Think "smooth"; imagine a golf swing with
1. Breathe to relax - Your mind and body areperfect tempo, perfect rhythm, and ensure your
intrinsically linked. Mind works on body, bodypractice swing is nice and smooth with good
works on mind. It's impossible for your mind to betiming.
tense and your body relaxed and vice versa. By13. Talk to yourself nicely; talk to yourself with a
relaxing your breathing you will automatically relaxconfident encouraging tone; tell yourself that you
your mind. Breathe through your abdomen, notcan do it and that you are great at this type of
your chest. Five deep breaths will do the trick.shot. Trust in your talent, your ability to hit the
2. Always execute your pre shot routine. Theperfect shot. Repeat a calm and positive word or
reason for having a consistent pre-shot routine isphrase; if that is what you are focusing on, then
to absorb your mind in the details of the task atthat is what you will do.
hand, and in so doing any other not-so-productive14. Dissociation - This is a good mental skill to
thoughts are displaced. If you thought itlearn if you suffer badly from first tee nerves.
unnecessary to have a set routine, think again.Imagine how good you could feel, just drifting out
3. Be in the now. You might think you are, but areof your body, floating up in the air and distancing
your thoughts really on the present moment? Ayourself from all those unnecessary emotions?
Stanford University study found that the averageYou can learn to watch yourself taking your golf
person has 60,000 thoughts a day, 59,500 ofswing.
which are the same as the day before - indicating15. Count to 10; an old remedy and it does work.
that it's a really tiny percentage of time thatCounting to 10 allows you some time to
people are really "in the now". If you're in there-engage your logical mind and think clearly about
now, you can't worry about past failures, youthe task in hand. When you are anxious the logical
can't worry about future outcomes.thinking part of your mind is bypassed and the
4. Whatever you imagine you create. Your brainlower brain functions take over. It is therefore
doesn't know the difference between a vividlyimportant to use any method which works for
imagined experience and a real one. Imagine ayou to take a step back and re-engage your
few perfect shots, build up that muscle memoryhigher brain functions. As your higher brain
and then you're more likely to hit a good golf shotfunctions are re-engaged you can think and focus
on the first tee.clearly on the task in hand.
5. A picture is worth a thousand words. Where16. Get help from professionals. If you have got
there is a conflict between your will power andinto the habit of feeling anxious and tense on the
your imagination, your imagination wins. Tofirst tee, golf hypnosis could be the answer to
demonstrate this, try as hard as you can, rightyour prayers. Not only is hypnosis a state of
now, to NOT think about the ball going into therelaxation, but you have access to your
bunker. What are you thinking about? Your mindsubconscious thought processes so that they can
is exquisitely talented; the golf ball will go tobe changed quickly and easily.