| How can you use the tactic of playing hard to get | | | | has more to do with controlling the flow of |
| to land the man of your dreams? How can you | | | | information in a relationship and thus controlling the |
| get a guy interested in you without ever | | | | direction of the relationship itself. It's a technique |
| approaching him? Is it possible to charm a man | | | | that slows things down to a comfortable speed |
| into your arms without ever saying a word? | | | | for a man (thus preventing you from jumping into |
| Playing hard to get is a well known dating | | | | a relationship) while at the same time keeping an |
| strategy that intimidates many women who don't | | | | element of mystery alive in your interactions. |
| understand how to use it properly. Let's dispel | | | | Relationships are about adventure and exploration. |
| some common misconceptions about playing hard | | | | Specifically, developing relationships are matters of |
| to get to get you moving in the right direction | | | | discovering new people, learning who they are, |
| toward finding lasting love. | | | | and nurturing appreciation for them. By playing |
| When it comes to getting men, capturing a man's | | | | hard to get, you accentuate this aspect of |
| attention isn't even half the battle. The difference | | | | relationships by never giving all of yourself away |
| between getting a guy to look at you and getting | | | | to a man immediately and by always keeping |
| a guy to stay with you is all a matter of keeping | | | | something hidden in reserve. |
| his attention. | | | | To give a few examples, playing hard to get is |
| Although playing hard to get is commonly thought | | | | about not telling a man what your favorite food is |
| of as a method of seducing a guy, when used | | | | but letting him discover it for his own when he |
| properly it is more effective as a strategy of | | | | takes you out for dinner. It involves not telling him |
| keeping things interested. The biggest potential | | | | that you've always wanted to learn to golf, but |
| obstacle in any relationship, new or old, is | | | | rather surprising him by taking him to a driving |
| boredom, and playing hard to get is one of the | | | | range on a date. Playing hard to get is about being |
| most effective preventative techniques for | | | | intentionally invasive in order to keep him in a |
| keeping that boredom at bay. | | | | constant state of wonder and suspense, and |
| When used properly, playing hard to get isn't a | | | | when done properly, it can ultimately lead to true |
| principle of remaining at a distance or making | | | | and everlasting love. |
| yourself specifically unavailable to a man. Really, it | | | | |