Why Do We Give Gifts?

Giving has been a subject of study within humanpartner can show interest and strengthen ties.
behavior for a long time by psychologists,For many, a gift creates the component of
economists and merchants. They discovered thatsurprise that makes them feel excited, happy and
giving gifts is a surprisingly complex and importantappreciated. Have you ever seen someone's face
part of human interaction that helps to definewhen you give them something unexpected?
relationships and strengthen ties with family andTry to remember that picture and you will see
friends. Psychologists say that it is often the giverwhy giving a gift is something that works in a
more than the receiver, who reaps the greatestmagical way. But the biggest effect of gift giving
psychological return from a gift.is seen in ourselves. Giving to another reinforces
The social value of giving has been recognizedour feelings for them and makes us feel happier.
throughout the history of mankind, but when did itTo have a better idea of the psychological effect
begin? For thousands of years some nativeof giving, researchers at Virginia Commonwealth
cultures have celebrated potlatch, a complexUniversity studied the gifts that the owners gave
ceremony that celebrates the act of giving.to their pets and found that their inspiration arises
Although cultural interpretations often vary, thefrom the desire to bring happiness to the animals
position of a family in a clan or village was definedand provide comfort and affection. The study
not according to who had more possessions butmay seem frivolous but it also provides an insight
by who gave more. The more generous theinto the nature of the act of gift giving, since pets
potlatch, the more prestige the family earned.can not return them in the same way. When
When we speak about giving, men are moresomeone gives something to a person they have
conscious of price and practicality when it comesthe pressure of reciprocity, but not so with pets.
to giving and receiving gifts. Women are differentThe study shows there is much pleasure in giving
in that they have to worry more about giving andand in knowing that one has been remembered
receiving gifts with emotional significance. Givingby someone.
gifts is often the most obvious way in which a